Answers to common questions about working with Kimberly.
If you have a question about working with Kimberly Walton, it is probably answered below.
Where is your office located?
Inside of the Sunrise Professional Centre
7844 Madison Ave, Suite 108
Fair Oaks, CA
The nearest cross streets are Madison and Primrose.
What is On Decision Couples' Counseling (ODCC)
When one or both parties in a marriage are considering divorce but are not sure if divorce is the best choice, they are what I call “On Decision”. This is often a confusing time, that is often marked by much uncertainty and a lack of clarity. Simply jotting down the reasons to stay or divorce on a sheet of lined paper does not produce reliable results.
I have a proven (customized) system that I use with my On Decision clients that produces clarity on if they should Yay, Nay, or Delay in their relationship.
If you are considering divorce and would like a complimentary chat to decide if On Decision counseling is right for you reach out.
Do you offer a free consultation?
Yes, I offer a free 15 minute initial consultation to discuss your situation. You can reserve your consultation HERE.
Do you provide video/phone sessions outside of California?
Yes! I have clients worldwide. Unlike traditional psychotherapy (which is limited to telehealth within the borders of the state in which they are licensed), I’m able to provide sessions anywhere you have internet or phone access. Yay for technology!
What types of clients do you work with?
I am passionate about working with people who are considering divorce, looking to save a troubled marriage, and those in the middle of or recovering from divorce.
If you currently or considering divorce and need help to gain clarity and certainty I specialized in a unique step by step approach to help you decide whether to work to save the marriage, delay your decision, or to end the relationship.
My ideal client is motivated to create a thriving and successful marriage, yet knows that it will take information, inspiration, and change. I understand that not every troubled marriage can be saved, but a great many can. Further, if you are currently going through a divorce or are divorced, it is important to work through the roadblocks that often prevent a successful re-marriage.
What about confidentiality?
Your confidentiality is of the utmost importance to me. I take our conversations and the trust between us VERY seriously. How can you be open with me if you don’t trust me, right? Many of my clients are managing trust issues in their lives due to previous hurts, and I completely understand this and want to be a part of your healing process. Yes, you can learn to trust again!
How much do you charge?
My rate for a standard 50-minute session is $125 per hour.
I also offer packages at special rates, as well as group programs and workshops.
Premarital, re-maritial, on On Decision counseling are set at 6 or 8 sessions.
Pre-paid package rates are:
- 4 Sessions = $450
- 6 Sessions = $625
- 8 Sessions = $800
Group program, retreat, and workshop rates vary based on the length and sponsorship. If you or your group would like to host a workshop or have Kimberly speak at an event or retreat, reach out for availability and pricing.
Do you have a sliding scale?
I have a very limited number of clients that I see on a sliding scale. However, I do offer special pricing for programs, group workshops, and packages. If you’re interested in more information please call or email for details.
What’s the difference between a Marriage Strategist and a Therapist?
This is a great question because there are very distinct differences in what we do and who we work with.
Therapists and counselors are considered psychotherapists – meaning they mostly work with individuals who have personality disorders, mental health issues, and other “clinical” issues that interfere with daily thoughts, feelings, and emotions.
Psychotherapists are considered to be health care providers and are legally able to assess, diagnose, and treat those conditions based on their professional training and clinical experience. Also, they are able to bill those services under traditional medical insurance.
A Marriage Mentor/Strategist is different. I do not diagnose people. Instead, my role is to come alongside those of you who don’t fall into the above category. If you’re in need of education, resources, and encouragement that falls outside of traditional diagnosable physiotherapy, a marriage mentor or strategist is a great option. This is often viewed more as educational than therapeutic in scope and nature. I do not work with insurances and am not a medical professional.
People seen by me are generally high functioning and well balanced. They’re simply in need of help to work through their roadblocks and setbacks to better understand how to unleash their own personal power and find solutions to everyday relational issues. I help strengthen and equip you – not treat you. Translation: I help you know what to expect in relationships and help provide tools and resources to face those obstacles when they come.
What type of training do you have?
As a professional educator and adjunct professor for nearly 20 years (seriously, I love teaching), my background has been in the study of people, rites of passage, and cultures. It has provided me a unique knowledge base with a focus on customs, rituals, patterns, and traditions and how those play out within relationships. This unique, focused view on relationship roles (however they are defined) has equipped me with a deep understanding on both the benefits and limitations those roles place across both place and community, unlike many other resource providers.
Additionally, having worked through the breakdown of my own first marriage and then the remarriage to my second husband (which included being part of a blended family) has brought a host of life-lessons– ones that are very much part of my own story of growth and personal development. This wisdom (born of my own failure/pain) helps me to inspire others by coming alongside them rather than talking down to them.
I’ve been there and I get it. I’ve experienced and felt it and lived it. So I can relate to it. And guess what? I came out on the other side healthy and with a successful second marriage. I want the same for you! My past is the reason I am so passionate about your future. Helping others achieve their own wildly successful marriage – no matter what stage of relationship you are in, IS my life passion.
How long do you work with people?
In short, it depends. The process and time it takes to work with people depends on your unique situation and, more importantly, your level of motivation. Part of the process is to fully understand your own story and how you see your own life. This process is important to help you see and fully understand your own life’s story, how that may be keeping you stuck in old belief patterns, and how to recognize and overcome them. This is an important step as it helps determine if traditional psychotherapy may be a better fit. (And if it is, I can help refer you to some fantastic and trusted therapists. I’ve got your back!)
From there we look at where you are trying to get and set early expectations, usually during your first session. This often includes setting the number of times you may need to be seen. On average, I see people three to ten times. Generally this is twice a month at first and then moves to once a month. Please note that motivated individuals who do the reflective work and practice the relationships tools will typically see dramatically faster results. Put in the work and you’ll see the results. This is true across most things in life (especially your marriage)!
How do I book a session with you?
You can book in-person and distance (internet/phone) sessions online HERE!
My schedule is usually very full and if you cannot find a date that works, please reach out to inquire about availability 🙂
What is "Re-Marital" mentoring?
We have all heard the statistic that roughly half of all marriages fail. But did you know that second and subsequent marriages have a much higher failure rate than first marriages? So, when it comes to a second or third marriage it is even more important to get guidance from wise counsel. There are common pitfalls to be aware of and there are ones that are unique to the individual and the circumstance. That is where re-maritial counseling comes in. Re-maritial counseling is pre-martial counseling (or post married, in some cases) and it geared to the unique challenges that second and subsequent marriages face. You don’t have to let a statistic define or scare you – you get to do it differently round two. Premarital and re-maritial counseling packages are specially priced and are a set at 6 or 8 sessions.
Are you available for speaking engagements or interviews?
Yes! I have the heart of a teacher and I’m more than comfortable working with groups of all sizes. I am happy to share via podcasts, interviews, retreats, workshops, etc. If you are interested in an informative, straight talking presenter who knows how to encourage participation and get outcomes, then contact me for availability for your next small group event, retreat, or training conference.
Please visit the As Heard On Page for samples of podcast guesting.
What’s the best way to contact you?
You can contact me via email at Hello@CherishedWives.com or by phone/text at 916-701-7922.
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What people are saying about working with Kimberly
I was feeling defeated and I was literally on the verge of a divorce. I had been praying and praying and then a friend suggested that I give Kimberly and her InLove Approach a try. I was not optimistic because things were so bad in my marriage. I had little hope, but I hung onto one of the first things that Kimberly told me. She said that one person can turn a relationship around. She gave me hope. I clung to that hope like a life preserver in a rough sea.
My marriage didn’t get better in a day. No, in fact, it took a couple of months before I felt like the tide had changed on my marriage. But, I remember the day that I felt like my marriage was no longer doomed. I was very upset and was about to yell at my husband and I heard Kimberly’s voice in my head gently ask me what is really going on here and what is the REAL issue. Kimberly insists we get to the real issue not the anger or hurt that is on the surface. So that day instead of yelling at my husband, I choose authenticity. That is the day that my marriage was no longer headed for divorce.
Kimberly really knows her stuff. She knows just when to ask the right questions, give examples and when to be quiet and let you come to your own conclusions. Sometimes I laughed and sometimes I cried in our sessions. But I always felt like I was in wise and compassionate hands. My husband and I used to fight over the littlest things and would argue everyday. But now it is like a dark cloud has been lifted off our family. My only regret, is that I wish that I had worked with Kimberly sooner. I could have saved myself and my marriage much heartache and distress.
If you want to improve your marriage you have come to the right place. The 6 principles that Kimberly teaches really get you in touch with what areas are and are not working in your marriage and why. Which seems like it should be obvious, but is not. Kimberly has a unique way of getting to the root of things. She calls you on your stuff, knows when to use silence as a tool and understands the complexities of marriages today. Working with Kimberly has taken my marriage off life support and now we are thriving.
I’m in a season of life where I stay home with my small kids. I’m exhausted. All of the time. And unfortunately, sometimes my sweet husband takes a back seat.
I’ve been following Kimberly’s blogs, newsletter, and social media posts for a few years now and I feel like every single one speaks to me. I always find relevant and useful information from her, as well as practical tips to implement in my marriage. I’ve sent her blogs to so many other wives because I know how useful, encouraging, and motivating they are for me.
Thanks for teaching us and helping guide us, Kimberly!
This was such wonderful class. I learned a great deal about how old beliefs and automatic thoughts are negatively impacting me and my marriage. I swear a couple of the class examples were like Kimberly could see into my head. I have so many excellent tools to help me to be more aware and to combat the negative thoughts and beliefs.
I loved the Self Care module and then I loved the next module even more and then the next module even more. Kimberly’s INLOVE approach truly works. And it really is about us as a whole-person.
Vision boarding is a new concept to me. Honestly, I had never heard of it until a friend told me about Kimberly’s class. It is kind of like the paint and sip classes that people do, but not really. I don’t really know how to explain it, but I can definitely say that it was so fun, lighthearted and nice to spend the time with other women. The bonus was that Kimberly had a bunch of examples for us to see and she gave us creative tips. I can’t wait for the next one.
I went to this class with a friend for moral support and I am really glad that I did. Kimberly has a gift of inspiring, educating, and entertaining all at the same time. I left the class with a new set to tools and I am more hopeful than I have been in years. I would most certainly recommend this class to others and I have already signed up for another class on a different topic with Kimberly.
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